Whatever it is, I wish you would tell me instead of ignoring me for going on 4 days now and almost an entire week since I last spoke to you. And whatever it is, I’m sorry. I don’t know what I did. R emailed me a thing and I responded nonchalantly to it because I honestly did not think it was that big of a deal. I asked if you were ok. That’s all I cared about. When he said you were and asked if I wanted to tell you anything, I thought making light of the situation was the best thing to do so you would understand it didn’t bother me. IT DOES NOT BOTHER ME!
If you feel betrayed by him for telling me something you did not want me to know….I can understand that. But he did tell me and I do know. And I don’t care. I didn’t care then and I don’t care now. You wanted to tell me something other than the truth and I don’t care about that either! You are mere mortal after all. Your human brain panicked and in that panic, it made a decision to cover up something from the new person in your life who you thought may not understand. I get it. A thousand and one times I get it. And I don’t judge you for it. If anything, I wish R would have told me whatever it is you wanted him to tell me because I’d still have you. I’d bury your secret in a thousand catacombs never to be found or heard again and if I were none the wiser for the rest of the days of my life, so be it. I’d rather live in ignorance of one tiny little mishap that happened to you than to know anything at all about it if it has caused you to retreat from me. Just come back.